Fear of borderline personality disorder
Why does it seem that everybody is so afraid of people with BPD and that they constantly get away with everything? Their explosive behavior literally becomes a safety net because those around them are so afraid of what is going to happen next they let things slide that they would never tolerate from their normal friends or family members.
It seems that most people end up allowing the BPD sufferers and their life to get away with horrible behavior for one of two reasons.
First the fear of borderline personality disorder; the fear of borderline personality disorder causes victims of people with BPD deliver a lead tip toe around them afraid that the BPD psychopath will strike at any moment and rain down the fury that they are used to having to deal with.
Second, exhaustion. Not a lot of people talk about it but if you’re forced to deal with someone with borderline personality disorder long-term after while you just get exhausted with all of the craziness, lies and abuse so you just simply allow them to continue to lie to you and get away with things because it’s exhausting trying to fight an uphill battle with somebody that will never admit fault.
My first recommendation to anyone who is reading this would be to get away from the borderline personality disorder person. Unfortunately for many of us due to family ties or the fact that we’ve had children with someone with BPD we aren’t simply able to walk away. Even more unfortunate many of us lose our willingness to stand up and defend what’s right and we let the BPD people continue to get away with their psychopathic abusive behavior.